I'm a divorced Puerto Rican, 5'9" tall and 220 lbs. I was born on the island, but was raised in Brooklyn, NY. I moved to Hampton Roads, VA in '95 to retire from the Army after 20 years of service. I recently relocated to northern Va to accept a new job position. I'm not into mind games and I have no time for anyone who is. Honesty is extremely important to me. If you don't have honesty in a relationship then you can't establish trust and without trust you really don't have a relationship.