Ok... I am back again. Seems like when I think I found a connection the shoe drops and the REAL person appears... Disappointing!! But I look at it this way. Their loss... So I am trying this again... Call me a silly romantic I know that there is someone out there for me. Look MEN this is isn’t hard!! Staying honest, respectful and faithful should be the easiest thing you can do in today world. Everyone deals with confusion, disappointments, failures everyday... I sure don’t want that in my relationship!! I have met some really interesting people, some players, and some characters and let’s not mention LIARS, Alias... Look I am not bitter or slighted... just tired of the same o YA YA... I am just keeping it REAL!! My 1st BFF is GOD and my 2nd BFF is ME. Friends are always welcome.
I have learned some characteristics and Traits that I DO NOT want to repeat they are...
• Do not ask me to marry you when we meet this is a turn off!! You need to get to know me or anyone before you marry! Friendships must be obtained before anything.
• Do not promise me the world for in reality you cannot deliver. I believe in having goals and dreams and growth potential but don’t be something that you are not that includes liars, imposters, alias!!
• Keep it Real... I don’t need to be flattered but just respected and appreciated!! Don’t call me your queen and treat me like trash
• Please don’t send me pics of yourself in your birthday suit... that is not attractive but scary and down right disappointing!
• Please do not tell me you are a communicator and you really lack in those skills that will ruin and take away one of your Cool points...
• Treat people the way you want to be treated
• Say what you mean!! And mean what you say!!
• Please don’t lie about your status and your age!! That is just STUPID!! And trust me it will eventually come out...
• Be honest with yourself before you can be honest with anyone else!!
• Please keep it CLEAN! If I want to know trust me I will ASK!!
• If you make plans with me and cant deliver and need to cancel just MAN UP and let me know.
Communications is the best asset we can give to everyone so never lose that quality. As always I wish everyone the best in your searches and remember don’t limit yourselves in your quest for happiness! I because I WON’T... Remember your happiness starts with you! Thanks for the friendships!! :) So if you are still interested please keep reading!!
Now About ME:
I was born and raised in New York. I come from a large family. I am the 5th child of 7 children and I am a twin… I have two great parents who have been married over 58 years and still going strong!!… I have always envied and admired them for the love they have for each other.
I am the proud parent of 4 children. All of my children are now grown and gone! I am a grandparent of 9. I am a very trusting and reliable person and at times that gets me into trouble. I can also be brutally honest! I tend to help others before I help myself. I am very affectionate, trusting, inspiring, kind, passionate and romantic, with a keen sense of humor. It’s the little things that make people feel wanted and appreciated. I truly believe we are all here to uplift each other. Sense of humor is Great Therapy… My work environment is very hectic at times!! I try to laugh everyday… I believe that will also keep you healthy…With all my children gone, for the first time I am getting to know me so I have decided to complete my degree... And that is why I am single by choice. I enjoy the simple ways of life...(/span) No Glitz or Glamour!! I am what you see now and tomorrow. I deal with people at face value.
But please know this … I am no fool or dummy... I can spot a problem before a problem happens... If you are trying to PLAY ME or Play Games you will be EXPOSED. I am a very simplistic person with no frills… I speak my mind and I know when to say y