I'm 53 years old and try to stay active whenever possible. I'm in good shape and believe that appearance and body type are very important. I believe that everyone should make an effort to exercise when ever they can. It shows that you care about your body and it's gets harder as we get older but I never go over 5-7 pounds of my desired weight. I work in the human service field and I love going to my job every day. I'm divorced going on four years, no baggage, no mess. I have a 28 year old son who lives out of state and doing well. I'm very spontaneous and we go anywhere at the drop of a hat when I get bored. I'm looking for a casual relationship and go from there. I like to meet people soon rather than talking for weeks and weeks. Thus, you can tell if there is any chemistry and or a physical attraction. Messaging and talking is fine but you can tell so much more about a person when you look into their eyes. I would like to meet someone near but you know how these sites go, the person your interested in always lives far away. l really like to travel and have met some wonderful people from this site while on vacation in their city. I do think I'm going to meet that special someone sooner or later on line or local. To each their own and if I fit our profile, let me know and if you don't fit mine, please move on. I won't even message you if I don't fit your profile because I respect it and will move on. And if we connect, let the fun begin because I'm drama and stress free with good conversation. Long distance chat to tell you my life story won't happen. Spiritual not religious. no photo, no response. I love life and will enjoy it the best I can. You ladies are so lovely and I wish you all well.