I have been widowed for almost 10 years My oldest daughter is on her own,I have a son who just completed his freshman year at UIC and a 12yo at home. I also care for my mother who lives with me.I enjoy reading going to the movies concerts, listening to music and motivational tapes by various ministers. I also enjoy church and socializing with my friends. I have dated and had some relationships that were good, bad and the ugly. I am now at a point in my life where I am not willing to deal with any drama.