Seeking true love can be a task at hand. Who do you love, will you be allowed to love and when can one really open up the heart and mind for comfort? I guess there is no magic formula. The good book ( Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth ) the Bible states , seek and it shall found. Ask and it shall be given.Do we all fall victim to I'm not sure who or what I want until they come?The question is, Will we chase that gift away because the package does not look like the dream we seek?Will we have the gift of recognition when he or she comes around the corner and states "Oops! Did you request a man like me"? What ya going to do now?"