Physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually fit happily divorced DBM LOL! Listens and sets priorities well. Loves kids, reading, sports, traveling, and cable news. Open minded yet set in some very particular ways. Just a big kid at heart that strives for excellence in life period. Ultimate wisdom and understanding to deal with and excel at life at every level imaginable is ingrained in my mental DNA. I have lived, loved and lost. I firmly believe that all those experiences have effectively prepared to continue on my journey in life with confidence and a humble spirit of maturity and precision and maturity in knowing EXACTLY what's good for me and to me. I firmly believe that in order to get respect it must be given. Also what goes around comes around in life, love and business in no specific order or protocol. I'm a "New Millenium Man " with a serious "OLE SKOOL FLAVA". Frankie Beverly and Maze, EW&F, Luther Vandross, Cameo, Teddy P, The Isleys, Anita Baker, James Ingram, The Barkays, Keith Sweat, Guy, etc... are just the tip of the iceberg. I know my place as a man/friend/potential husband and my agreed upon boundaries and expectations. I can be strong and humble with flexible balance. I can be the quality man required for the strong confident woman as a lover or a good understanding friend. My ideal match is a tough question. Becoming friends first is the cement for the foundation of growth. It's built ideally brick by brick but the solid as a rock foundation and real love is the key.to success. I collect friends. I believe good and true friends are necessary in this world for the socialization process of companionship. Mutual chemistry is a really crucial and integral recipe for success. No inbetweens here you either have it ir you don't. Sex is the easy part but spontaneity can be euphoric and majical!!!!!