I believe in people treating each other fairly. I believe in being honest with a person. I am a nurturer by nature. I believe in home and family. I like to laugh. I can be serious and then flip it around to be really silly. I love the ocean, water has that tranquil effect. I am very young at heart, people sometimes have a hard time believing I am 50 something. I adore a man who is not afraid to communicate his feelings. I love that sense of humor in man where his smile lights up a room. I like a man to be my friend as well as lover. An ideal relationship to me is not having one party just being self absorbed. It should be a give and take relationship. I think both parties should not be afraid of sharing feelings. Being cuddly and holding hands. Being able to laugh at each others little silly quirks without the other getting hurt feelings. Just being able to get along share each other hurts, excitements, and just plain have fun with one another.