As a woman in this day & age,I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself?I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter.I am in the position to ask,'What can a man pursueing me bring to the table?Clearly you would think I was referring to money.let me quickly correct your thought , 'I am not referring to money. I need something more.I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.I'll explain.I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.
I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden.I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.
I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his own business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection,but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.whew I'm finished with my spill, You may think I'm asking a lot.I'm worth a lot.what says you?