The man I will eventually meet is intelligent but not arrogant. He has an inner strength that shines through not because of what he says but because of the man that he is. He is confident enough in himself and us to trust me with his fears, doubts and concerns...but does not worry that being vulnerable is a weak reflection of his manhood. He has a sense of style that is understated but his presence commands attention when he walks into a room. He knows how to love, value and respect his woman.