A MAN Is A TERRIBLE Thing To Waste...
I have read a lot of what most women want in the man of her dreams... Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Obedient, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave Clean and Reverent... (!) Sounds like she's looking for a Puppy-Dog!!... Does not abuse his body with Alcohol and Cigarettes and must be Disease and Drug free, Loves God and his Momma...! Does not Lie, Cheat, must be totally Monogamous and promise to treat Her like the Queen/Princess she believes herself to be. These things HE must bring to the table before SHE decides if HE's WORTHY of her AFFECTION... (?) Is she looking for a GOOD Man, or a Man that's GOOD? Is she looking for PORK-CHOPS or STEAK? Does such a man really exist? Does such a Woman...? She'll go on to say that GOD is her FIRST Love and For-Most in her life. Yet, I am an educated, Assertive, Provocative, Exciting, Enticing, Sexy, Vex, Erotic, Exotic, Tempestuous, Stimulating, Tempting, Sexually active, Hotblooded, Passionate Lady... that won't kiss on the first date, or settle for a "One Night Stand". But, don't start anything you can't FINISH!!! She'll finish by saying, "When you look at my picture and all you can see is Sex... KEEP MOVING! If you can't see the INNER person, the BEAUTY, or my INTELLIGENCE... KEEP MOVING! If all you can think about is getting me into bed... Well, you know. She says all this while sitting at a Bar/Nite Club, cigarette in one hand, drink in the other and wearing a dress with less material than a garter belt... (?) Please PLEASE! Don't get me Wrong! it really gets MY attention and I LOVE IT! But, "To Thine Ownself... Be True"
Suppose all I can offer is an occasional hand-holding moonlit walk with quality conversation... Suppose all I can offer is a quiet evening of soft romantic music, and a sip of the nectar of the GODS [your place or mine] while inflating your ego... Suppose that evening consists of touching and fondling by a cozy fire at [your place] I don't own a fireplace. Imagine laying in each other's arm, enjoying the moment as you tell ALL about yourself... And, when it's my turn, I tell you, ALL about yourself...! Suppose I enjoy Movies-In/Movies-Out , Dining-In/Dining-Out (Oh Yeah, I can cook!) and Dancing the night away... Suppose, all I can offer is a complete Massage [Head to Toe] with strong powerful hands that know where and how to stimulate you after a long hard day... Leaving the world around you, behind you... These things I bring to the table. And, I Ain't Perfect! I'll make the same mistake... only once.
Get the picture? Now, suppose I want the same things in return... (?)
UH OOH! WHOA! WHAT! HOLD-ON A MINNIT!! WHO DA HELL DO YOU THINK YOU IS...???
Kinda changes things, don't it...? Yeah RIGHT!! Why would "I" have to be so perfect when you're not? What will YOU bring to the table. Both men and women are ONLY as Loyal as their options will allow them to be. Remember, you only GET as good as you GIVE... "To Thine Ownself... Be True"