Hi, Ladies. I am a 42 year old, tall, attractive, intelligent, woman - loving black man who works as a Chef. Yes, I am an actual Chef, not just a cook. I believe that the black woman is the most beautiful thing that God ever created. I have a 13 year old son that I love and care for dearly. It is important for me to be in my son's life because I grew up without a father, so I know the importance of having a positive male role model in your upbringing.