I consider myself very honest and direct I am a woman of varied tastes, I love luxury and extravagance but what I love more is someone who listens, gets me and then acts on that. A gift from the heart is far more appreciated than the cost. I keep myself in good condition both mind and body and would expect the same from and for my mate. I can be comfortable lounging at home, but am someone who has no intention of merely existing in this life but to thoroughly enjoy it. I am adventurous, some say fearless, but I am fearful I just never let it be the reason for not doing something, I simply feel the fear and do it anyway. I love to travel and like to take a few trips a year. I am a woman who is always on time or early and therefore do not like my time being wasted waiting. I am decisive, a realist and a dreamer all at once. I am loyal, giving, nurturing, and absolutely love being a woman. I loathe smoking, cigarettes and all that comes with it. I am an alpha female and can be strong willed but I do not want to be the man in my relationship. Therefore, I need a man who knows who he is, where he is going, what he wants in life and how he intends to get it. I want someone who can keep me engaged conversationally, make me feel like a Queen and respects my opinions, intuition and knowledge. I learned a long time ago that being happy is a choice and I make that choice each and every day I rise. I have a positive outlook on life and the glass is always overflowing.