I am a woman of integrity, who likes to read, write and most of all laugh. I love spontaneity. I like a man who has taken care of himself physically, and knows how to spiritually. If you can make eye contact, then that tells me you know where you are going in life. Telling a woman what you THINK she wants to hear turns me OFF, Flowery Words. When you speak from your heart, then I know you are talkng to only me.