48-Yrld brother enjoys the simple things life has to offer. Not looking for anything real serious at the moment, but a close “Friend." However, we know “True” friends last forever. I love spending quality time and talking with a sister who loves to listen and want to be listened to, someone who can be “understanding,” of my feelings as I am of hers. I cherish someone who will always truthful, no matter how much it hurts. Truthfulness, trustworthiness, and integrity go above everything else and are the things I value the most. As my grandmother always told me “The truth you will remember, a Lie you will forget.” I guess what I’m saying is that once you start lying, you’ll continue to live a lie, and it is one of the number one thing that will ruin a relationship.
People who lie and cheat always want you to forgive them on their terms. They routinely state how they made a "mistake" and how “You” are the one who is not “Forgiving,” or have a "hardened or cold heart." I refuse to be made the fault or to feel guilty for someone else’s lies and cheating. Lying and cheating are no “Mistake,” one makes a conscience choice to do what he or she has done outside of their marriage or relationship, so therefore they must deal with the consequences that comes along with lying and cheating. I am not a type of brother who is into the outward appearance of someone. I think sometimes we spend so much time looking at that outer beauty, that we miss that inner beauty of a person, which means so much more. The beauty of love, giving, sharing, and that overall aura that someone special brings over you that you can never explain.
I have learned that all the money or education a person has or their outward beauty can never amount to that “Special” feeling that “Special” person can give you. I will always treat a “Lady” like a “Lady,” so as long as she presents herself as such. I truly believe in being the head of the house, which does not mean being a dictator or a tyrant, but doing the right things, providing for my family, and through the works of the family, establishing some stability and guidance within the home. I believe most women, even if they don’t want to admit it, wants a strong man they know they can count on, to be their protector, provider, and someone you know that will always be by their side, through the good and bad times. A man they can go to for guidance, even though he may not always have the answer she wants to hear or even the right answer, a man who because of being truly a man, demands and deserves respect, and he as well, in return will demand nothing but respect for his lady.