Thank you if you took the time to stop by and read my profile. I have gotten some very handsome responses, I had been on the website for about a year before I changed by membership plan. At the moment I am not able to respond to emails, but thanks just the same. I consider myself outgoing yet shy, I love family times, volunteering, the outdoors in the summer, nature, traveling, good food, watching sports, theater, concerts, festivals, museums, different cultures, cruises. I try to be a good person and be kind to everyone as best I can . I believe Jesus died for my sins, so I can become very convicted if something doesn't set right in my spirit. There's many different sides to me, some need to be worked on. But, who's perfect: right?. I have 1 child and 3 grandchildren. I work hard to have the few things GOD has blessed me with. I do believe in love at first sight and do believe in matches via web connections, and know that some are out there just for a hook up. If that is you keep it moving, because I am looking for the real deal, the man who looks at whats on the inside and not whats on the outside. Someone who is stable in mind, body and spirit. I am not Mrs Universe except in my own world and am very secure in my beautiful black self. If we're a match maybe I will change my membership plan back and respond to you. If not best of luck.