41 year old eccentric, living and breathing in Harlem, USA. Looking for friends and maybe a relationship if it pans out. I've learned to take these sites with a grain of salt so I'm a realist. You only get what you put into it. I have a lovely daughter living in Philly with her mother and stepfather, a strong sense of family and a loyal attitude towards dating. As far as what I'm looking for... well. First off I'm looking for a WOMAN. Not a girl, or a man for that matter. Please have at least one head shot. You need to be patient and adventurous. Willing to try new things because I'm an old school rock 'n' rolla (got 4 guitars and a catalogue of over 500 songs to prove it, none of that fake nonsense either). I'm not the shallow type but I'll tell you plain and simple... IF YOU DON'T LOOK GOOD IN JEANS, SNEAKERS, AND A T-SHIRT, YOU DON"T LOOK GOOD. You can't hide beauty. All the make-up, jewelry, and hoochie wear does not impress me one bit. And while we're on the subject, and I've said it before, THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ARROGANCE AND ELEGANCE. Elegant women don't need to point it out....EVER.