We all have one life to live and we should make the best of it. We all have had many encounter and relationships. Some good and some bad. We search for our perfect match, but we forget that no one is perfect, including ourseleves. Out of every relationship we learn something that makes us the person we are today. you learn to be more open minded to the other person's feeling, needs and happiness. Of cause there is that first attraction and lust that always seems so important to us, but we forget the importants of being friends first. I don't know about you guys but I am tired of chasing pavements. I I want to have a good life without drama with a loving woman. Honesty, and respect must be given by all. We must let each other be ourselves. I have been off for a few years and now I got pulled back in.