About me! I am a laid back person, not interested in saving the world, not interested in finding a cure for cancer! What I am intrested in is finding the right lady for me. I like to cook, go out on the town, chill at the park, backyard BBQ's (so long as I am doing the grilling) I love pampering my lady, love to help her look her best!! I love and need attention from my mate, I too need to feel like I am the only man for her!! I love being in love, love to share everything, from the daily activities to the nightmare I had last night. I enjoy being close to my mate, mentally and spiritually. I am sort of a jack of all trades I can repair almost anything. I like to consider myself as being reasonable intellengent. What I am looking for! A mature lady whom knows life and the obsticles life can put before her and, know how to deal with those obsticles without second guessing. I want, no I demand a lady that bring something to the table other than the usual, don't get me worng, the usaul is cool but, not what I am looking for. I have been there, did that and don't want to go back because, life is too short to just kick it to see what happens. To start I would like to talk on the phone to feel each other out and see if we click, from there it is anybodies guess. Yes I am 54 and blessed, I feel like I am 44 and blessed, my friends say I act 34. I don't do drugs of any kind, and I don't sleep around. Lets Talk if you want to know more. Thanks for taking time to read!