Hello Gentlemen. I am a woman who prefers a man who knows himself. He knows his strengths, weaknesses, dislikes and likes. I can respect a man who can communicate what he thinks and feels. A man who has children is VERY SEXY to me, especially the man who is active in their lives. We talk often about our children because we love raising them. He has a career he loves so he can tell me about his day. I help him relieve his stress and celebrate with him on the good days. A man with goals is a man with purpose. Sure he will make mistakes but that's fine as long as he learns from them. A man who is confident in making decisions turns me on like ESPN sport hightlights. He makes me laugh because he loves to see me smile. He loves looking and smelling good because I cant keep my hands and lips off of him.