I have a friends first approach, if something progresses out of it, then we can go forward into the next phase. I'm very confident, not about games, I'm as real as they come, my New York swag may come across as arrogant, but I'm not one to settle, I'm very selective on who I choose to be a potential mate. I love a women who's stable mentally, confident and able to speak her mind. I'm still adjusting to the area, and the people..lol I'm not attracted to superficial, high maintenance females, women like that bore me...Now this may intimidate some females with low self-esteem. Oh well!!