I was an experianced "soul/life-mate" and faithful for over 30 years. Then, bahm, the D thing hit from out of no where. Who ever said love was fair? Anyway! If she couldn't be satisfied by me then, she probably won't ever be satisfied. I'm mature enough to know that you can't make anyone love you. So, it's cool let her move on. I want someone who wants to be wanted, to share (the good, bad, and ugly-----no really-----the Hopes, Fears, and Desires) growth in a mutually inclusive relationship. I hold dignity and respect to be my most important virtues. I think I'm cool and analytical, I like to discuss things. So, you treat each other equally, not one before the other, but side by side and shoulder to shoulder, through it all.