I don't want to know how much money you make, what you do for a living, or what what kind of car you drive. I don't want to know how much you work out. I don't want to know if you think you look your age or not.....I want to know the state of your heart. I want to know if you know how to show up in a relationship if you are aware of what your needs are, so you can get them met, and so you can communicate them to me. I want to know if you can let your defenses down enough to be playful, vulnerable, weak....real...enoug h to be loved. Inevitably we will hurt each other. I want to know what you do when you get hurt...So we can work our way back to each other, and not just build up walls and blame each other.....I want to know what opens your heart...and...I want to know what makes your knees go weak. I want to know what is sacred to you....So I can see beyond the pictures and words....So I can feel your heart. I know that a good relationship does not happen because of what I look like, or because of what I wear.....I need to know the state of your heart, dear.