Hi....I have gotten to be a very serious minded person now that I am older. I don't think there are soul mates.I think if you are lucky enough to meet a gentleman and there is a special connection than both of you must work very hard to make that relationship a workable one. I am not looking for someone to run my life. I am satisfied with my life and the way I live it. I am looking for someone to share my life with. I am not looking for games although I enjoy laughing and having fun. I have a life and my significant other needs a life also because I want us to share our life together. If you are looking for the same let's meet and greet I am not a hard person to please.