peace from new haven...!!!! not looking for anything serious but if you're spiritual, positive, patient with a good sense of humor, let's talk. time to get serious about our community and our identity. the detroit NAACP buried the 'N' word and we should all follow their example. we cannot demand respect while disrespecting ourselves. no one is bound to respect a person (a race) that doesn't respect itself...no more talking- we need action!