I am a romantic and I love a good love song...Brian McNight, Luther, even some Jazz pieces speak to my heart. I want to be wined and dined...I am old school. I like to be courted. I am honest and the truth is the way for me. I am kind..whatever I do, I do from my heart. I appreciate the finer things in life, but they mean nothing to me. People, experiences and relationships are far more important. I am fun and love a good story or two...I love to laugh...its good for the soul. I am a grown woman and want to be treated that way...with dignity and respect.
I am at the age of miracles. I know who I am, I know what I want. I am mature. I have lived a few years so I have wisdom. I want to have fun and meet new people at this point and if something develops along the way then...so be it!
Do you know "The Invitation", it is a poem that speaks to me.
Let's see... I want someone that works from a full cup. Meaning, a man that takes care of himself. One that gives from his overflow ( "you can't give what you don't have, love, kindness, honesty"). You must love yourself, care about yourself, know God's love, be happy, have joy, be kind, appreciate life and sees things from a positive place. A whole man, undamaged or at the very least healed that LOVES WOMEN. A spiritually awake man that understands the possibilities we are afforded. An honest man with integrity. I want a hard working man...I don't care what you do for a living...I care that it is meaningful to you, of course honest and brings you some level of satisfaction and or joy. I want a man that can give from his overflowing cup...it assures that goodness and mercy will follow us all the days of our lives.
I want an intelligent man that can challenge me mentally. Can show me new things and experiences, opens my eyes in wonderment and is excited to do that. A man that asks questions to understand. A man that doesn't just jump to conclusions and even if you do, you remain open to a different possibility. This is a big one for me, because sometimes I think I may be hard to understand. A man that is well intended and does the right thing even when it is hard. When I make a mistake, a man that corrects and or guides with a gentle, loving hand and spirit. A forgiving man that understands we are human and we neither of us is perfect. But we are perfect for each other. A very affectionate man. Very comfortable in his skin, knows who he is and what he wants and likes. A man with passion. I want someone that becomes synergized with me...we learn to know when it is his or my time to lead in the relationship and we each step up to do that without fear of losing ourselves because we stood still, stepped back or allowed our mates greater strength, talent, or skill to manage a situation, project or task. I want a grown up with a young spirit...playful.