I'm shy at first until I get to know you,but what you see is what you get (I keep it real). I consider myself handsome with good self esteem, although photos doesn't seem to do me justice, I think!. I believe that i look more appealing in person. We are our own worse critic, as they say. I do have a good sense of humor and I can be sarcastic sometimes, but only if u set yourself up for it.lol...I am a good listener and communicator and truly believes COMMUNICATION is the key to a healthy relationship. I'm a very generous person, but not to the point of being taken advantage of. I do have to feel that lady friend deserves it. I like to work out, eat at different restaurants, go to the movies, travel, and just sitting at home sometimes watching blu-ray movies & sports in hi- def on the flat screen..lol. Putting everything out on the table, i am a DAD so, I like to spend quality time with my 6yr old son. "I love him so much." I'm going to pat myself on the back and say that im a good DAD! For now, I am looking for a female friend and if there is CHEMISTRY between us, we take it a step further(NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT and I AM MONOGAMOUS!). The type of woman i'm attracted to are women that are a size 12 or smaller with curves. I dont mean to offend anyone, but I cant help what I am attracted to. I mean you dont have to look like "Beyonce", but dont let yourself go either.. On another note I am a hard working blue collar guy, looking for female company to have good times with. Lets develop a relationship! Life is short, so i want to have fun and enjoy ourselves. One thing i do ask of you ladies is that if you are not over someone, please do not get into another relationship until you are. Here's some more FOOD FOR THOUGHT get rid of those UNREALISTIC LISTS & REQUIRMENTS of what you are looking for in a man! I'm not telling you to settle for less, but that could be the main reason why you been single for so long. If you cant bring those same things to the table, dont demand it from us men.... We all have faults and flaws, which means GIVE AND TAKE! What matters most is that the person has potential and that the faults and flaws are bearable to work pass. Bottom line is don't look for MR.PERFECT. Its not a such thing.... On the other hand everything that you want in a man is not necessarily good for you.(BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ASK FOR)...I have a excellent quote to share for all of us! " Dont find LOVE, let LOVE find you. thats why its called falling in LOVE, because you dont force yourself to fall, you just fall." thanks!!!!...BY THE WAY ITS A PLUS IF YOU CAN COOK... REALLY GOOD!!!!...LOL...One more thing ladies, dont make one man pay for the troubles another man caused. thank you P.S. I seem to be very compatible with the zodiac signs Virgo, Gemini, Pieces, Libra,Leo and Saggittarius but im openminded with the zodiac!