Greeting in the name of the Lord the one is, and the one was,and the one is to come.I would prefer a lady who really loves the Lord, not so much in lip action, but in day to day living. she must loved and respect her parents, respect her children, respect her mate and most of all respect herself at all times.I prefer someone in my life that is understanding, caring,motivated fun-loving,sensitive ,Intelligent and understand the important of God operating in every area of our lives,understanding the important of God being the head and not the tail, understanding the important of God being supreme over the house hold. she must be willing to be able to decrease and let God increase into her life. no matter how much money you have or make ,if God is not in control then this man is definitely not for you. I am looking for a God gifted first lady not just a lady. may God bless you and heaven may smile upon you.