Hello, my name is Shari, I would like to start off by saying: God is first and foremost in my life and I put Him in front of everything in my life,including relationships. A right connection is where two or more people bring strength of their wholeness together in relationship with one another and with God. Be open to new things,experiences, and challenges. I believe if you don't know who you are in God, and are not confident in that , you are not ready to be in relationship. Love yourself enough and be comfortable with who you are. Just like Jesus is our bridegroom, the man in my life has to come for me , should love on me, care for me, fight for me and win me, that way i will always be precious to him, a relationship is established. And A man that finds a wife, finds a good thing, He has found favor with the Lord.(proverbs18:22) L0VE GOD, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE OTHERS!!! If you are not a man of God then you need not go any further!!!!!!!!!!