First and foremost, I desire a man after GOD's own heart. A man that have HIS own personal relationship with GOD. A man that puts God & HIS Word(the HOLY BIBLE) first. A man that will love me as Christ loved his Bride..(the Church). A man that not only Plays with me; but Prays with me as well. A man that knows the Bible says, SEX of any kind with someone that is not your wife is Fornication-a great SIN committed against one of the most precious gifts a woman has-HER BODY(THE TEMPLE OF CHRIST). A man that knows that INTIMACY is even better than SEX....and is what we as women desire and long for! A man that acknowledges for his life to be completely whole, he NEEDS and should take a wife. A man that sees me as his helpmate -made from his rib to walk equally and proudly beside him. A man that doesn't just say he loves me out a routine gesture, but actually says and means the words with heartfelt sincerity! LOVE is an action word! Express it with thoughtful and meaningful spontaneous deeds. A man that will encounter failure, grief, disappointment, shortcomings; but will have the widsom to recognize these as only "defining moments" that will be used by GOD to enhance his character! A man that with a cheerful heart provides and takes care of his family. A man that bestows this as an HONOR given to him by GOD; not as a "ball-n- chain" task. A man that makes me proud to shout it from the roof tops that he's my husband! Therefore, I won't go ahead of GOD and try to find him myself. I have done that-and failed miserably!(smile) Faith tells me he exists...so I wait patiently on GOD' S perfect timing!