Now I am a very honest, loving and caring person. I am looking for the same in the gentleman that comes into my life. I am not looking to meet someone that needs to play games with a person emotions or life. I would like to meet someone that does not mind communicating with the person that he wants in his life. I am not looking for drama nor am i looking to give any. I do intend to say how i feel about different issues if i am bother by them. I hope that the person in my life will do the same, but please do not try to change me or maybe i should say mold me into your beliefs or way of thinking. Remember we are each our own person. I don't mind compromising. I want to meet someone that wants to be in love with his friend first/ partner secondly because if he truly loves that person when a disagreement comes up he will try every intervention to resolve the issues before giving up totally. That way i would not have to wonder if he was ever truly in love from the start. Finally, updated pics. So, what do u think of me now (smiling). (In the first pic i was 49 years old and that pic was taken in 2003. In the other 2 pics i was 53 and they were taken june/08. The one with me standing outside was taken jan/09 and the one with me in the blue outfit was taken oct/09.