Busy professional looking to meet someone to explore the Washington Metropolitan Area with. I am community-minded with a cultural art interest. I love meeting people and getting to know them. I'm looking to meet persons with similar interests to enjoy my current time and space. I've been on this site for a little while. Its time that I update my profile. So here goes... I'm actually looking for two things:
1. First things first: I would love to meet someone who loves God, loves family, is confident (not arrogant) but sensitive to others, who can enjoy themselves alone as well as in the presence of others, has a sense of humor, is a gentleman and is not afraid to embrace the dating process. Through that time spent together (e.g., dating), we would get to know one another and begin to share our thoughts, views, opinions and personal space. The special one would have to be available, reliable and accountable for their words, deeds and actions. Then, we would share our feelings and eventually our worlds. We'll see where things take us from there. Marriage is my ultimate goal but only with the right person (and is not a term that I use for the sake a conversation).
2. While waiting on first things: In the meantime, I'd like to meet someone who loves to have a good time can smile pretty regularly, is flexible and open enough to share of themselves, their time and their space through a friendship. After we know each other a bit, I'd like to be able to share some evenings out on the town enjoying what this area has to offer. I'd like to go out with you to enjoy some of the things that you like to do (hopefully similar to items I've mentioned in my profile but I'm open to some new things---not all new things). Likewise, I'd also like to be able to call you up just to shoot the breeze, just to watch a movie, go to a museum, go to a play or go to a black tie event. I'd like to be confident that you'd say yes to any one of these without much hesitation or blow-off. Spontanaeity is good. However, we need to be able to deal with each other's schedule, family-obligations while making a way to spend time together. Honesty is the base requirement. Creativity is a "must." Follow-through is an imperative.
In both cases: Conversation is crucial to us increasing our knowledge of one another. Hearing your voice is a "good thing." I'd like to think of you often and sometime hear your voice just to make my day a little better. I look forward to you treating me like a lady and I'll treat you like the man you are. Although my career is demanding and my time is sometimes limited, I still need someone who is not challenged by the requirements of manhood. In any case: If you have no photo or no follow-through, please keep it moving. Let's not waste our time. Yes, attraction and chemistry are important. However, the inner qualities of a person and self sufficiency attached to these features are what make the whole/complete man.