"REALNESS and Not into playing GAMES"! Ladies, I know its hard to find a good Man in this day & time but the same can be said to you also. Please forgive that man who hurt you from the past and let it go. I (WE) did not hurt you! LOL What is attractive is a woman who is beautiful both the inside as well as outside, good morals, character and values, spiritual grounded (not too religious) but also who enjoy life, aware of their own faults and honest. Being straight forward, independent, but does not mind letting a man be a man, smart, intelligent and humble, is a big plus for me. Someone who look at developing chemistry 1st in a relationship as well as a partnership. As far as the physical, someone who physically fit, proportional to their weight and height and enjoy exercise just a little. And someone to keep up with me on the "Dance Floor". (LOL)!