Let me take a moment to tell you just what I am looking for in a friend, lover and mate.
1. A friend.
Why? Without being friends what do you have after the love making? I need someone that can pour out their soul to me and I can do the same without fears.
2. A Husband.
Why? I want someone that I can “love” for the rest of my life or theirs. A mate that can depend on me and me on them. Someone that’s there through sickness and health will be there right by my side.
3. A Lover.
Why? A lover is a person that can hold your hand and make love to you; someone that can look into your eyes and make love to you without having a physical intercourse. Someone that calls your name and feel your presents when you are not with them. Sharing times walking in the park or on the beach, movies, dinning in or out and working out together.
I am old enough to know that life is not a bowl of cherries (nor a box of chocolates), but it’s not just jumping into the sack and thinking everything is going work out.
Life is about sharing with someone you love. Sharing the good, bad and ugly times and getting through them together. Its laughing, crying, sleeping, working, playing and whatever else there is to do together.
I know the words “soul mate” is over used, but for me I am really praying and looking for that true “Soul Mate”.