....When people show you who they are, believe them the first time."---Maya Angelou The reality of Black-Singles is that people can be and type anything they want to on the profile pages, and they do. Whatever satisfaction someone gets from faking a life online is beyond me. All I can say is be real with yourself. Accept yourself. Love yourself. With all your flaws and qualities and you will be alright. Forget about people that won't love you for who you are. You shouldn't have time for them anyway. I choose now to live life to the fullest, to smile as much as humanly possible, to create, to pour into people, to be a blessing, to be around people that want to be productive and not just make money, people who want to make a difference in the lives of others.