The kind a man that I preceive as a positive partner must be a strong black man. He is self confidant.and loves to laugh. He is capable of engaging in intelligent conversation. He has a sense of humor and is able to laugh at himself should the occasion arise. He is one who is God fearing and loving. One who can agree to disagree if his opinion is not the same as mine. He is one who does not mind being placed on a pedestal, looked up to, and entrusted with the dearest thing to me, my heart, should the relationship progress to that level. Last but not least he he is trustworthy, a one woman's man and comfortable in the presence of God. Don't get me wrong looks are important but I do know beauty is only skin deep.