Most of us need someone who is fun, whom we can trust, have true affection for, with whom we can grow, and who makes us feel complete. We need a person we can talk to about issues on our mind and in our heart, without the dialogue becoming tense and mean-spirited. We need to be clear, honest and concise in what our expectations are. While emotional compatibility is important to a relationship, too many of us fail to realize that financial compatibility is just as important. Studies and research indicate that the number 1 cause of relationship stress, conflict and divorce is financial discord. At this point you are probably saying to yourself, "I'm here for romance and this guy is too serious." SMILE. Think about all the guys who say the "baby this, baby that," romantic words you like to hear. In the end, do they truthfully say what they mean, and mean what they say? Finding and maintaining a long term relationship with a committed partner, is definitely serious busines. Do you feel me? What I am thinking about you is "how will she enhance my quality of life?" I fully expect you to be thinking the same about me. I would love to hear from you but let's keep it real. A brother/sister can look real good when all dressed up and a smile on their face, but the true measure of a person is what is in their heart and head.Thank you for taking the time to visit with me.