I tend to put the feelings & needs of others ahead of my own. I don't know if that is a good thing or not. There have been several occasions where friends have felt that I've sacrificed too much for them. I feel that there is no such thing as sacrificing too much for the people you care about. When you don't have siblings, friends become that much more important.
The special lady that I am looking for is confident in herself but not cocky or conceded. She must be trustworthy & secure in our relationship. Without trust there is no relationship. In addition to these my ideal lady is compassionate & doesn't take the simple things in life for granted. I believe that taking the opportunity to watch a sunset or gaze at the stars once in awhile is good for the soul.