I assure you i have plenty of what you seek, i am not arrogant but confident in who i am, if the earrings in the photo are a deal breaker, they are removable. If my weight is an issue then all i can say is that we all at sometime wished we could loose ten pounds. If distance is going to be a factor, let me say it is not like i need to cross an ocean or need a visa to meet you, i am old school and still believe in the courtship of getting to know someone, opening of doors and the occasional flowers and card, leaving the toilet seat down for you. I am simple and low maintenance, open minded, optimistic and hopeless romantic, wear my heart on my sleeve type of guy. Healthy enough to do many things but not enough to run the Boston Marathon, honest and sincere and value others opinions, respectful, funny and great personality.