I'm a fairly decent looking guy with many good qualities. One of them is that I'm a gentleman to the lady of my life. I'm a little old fashion in that I understand that my job in a relationship is to provide and protect my mate. She'll know the things that she has to to to make the "partnership" work efficeintly. I'm looking for a stable lady, I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me. I'm also not looking for anyone who's not employed, or looking to have anymore children. I'm done with kid scene, but have no problem with your existing children. I'm "gainfully" employed, and I work for myself too. I love to travel, theater,comedy, nature, dining out, and so many other things. I do not smoke and unfortunately am not interested in smokers. I strive for the finer things in life, and try to be inspiration and support to my mate to achieve their goals. Looking for that special lady that can fill the bill.