I am seeking a FRIEND, first and foremost. Someone with whom I can share my thoughts and feelings. Someone with whom to laugh or cry. A true HELP MEET. A friend that has an understanding heart with whom I can share my past and future without being harshly criticized. Once I find a friend, then a lover. Not just having sex, but true love. Someone I can look at, smile at, snuggle with, and give an impetuous kiss to, hug or smile whether at home or in public. Someone to talk to, someone to listen to. Someone who is willing to give 5 percent when I give 95 percent or 0 percent when I give 100 percent or visa versa (vice versa). Then a life time partner who is a friend, a lover and a wife. Then we would truely be ONE. Too much to ask for? No. I don't think so. I still belive that Special One in the flesh is out there. I'm not a pessimist but an optimist. Hello My Black Nubian Princess. Are you still out there???