I am Handsome but carry a few extra pounds. .I am a good listener and love to talk. I feel that the most important part of a woman is not her body but her mind and the power to exercise and use it, that's a real turn on. I'm also not attracted to the hollywood idea of hot women they're too skinny. I don't care if you carry a few extra pounds so long as you respect yourself take care of yourself. I like a woman who is confident in herself.