I am an African American male of average height and weight for my age. That’s 6 feet and 190 lbs. I like most everything in life that most people like but I will try to narrow it down to a few. I have a 24 year old son whom I like to do things with sometimes, such as camping, fishing, bike riding, and most spectators sports. Then there are other things such as listening to music of various type. Mostly R&B (preferably the 60’s, 70’s and some 80’s, it’s not that I’m living in the past but I just have fond memories of that period), some pop, lite jazz, and yes classical when I’m in the mood. I like walking and talking in the park on a warm romantic evening. I even like walking in the rain if it’s not too cold. I like sipping on wine during intimate conversations. I love long slow lovemaking that utilizes the whole person (body and mind). I like just cuddling before and after lovemaking and talking about life, love and each other. As I majored in music in college I sometimes plays the piano. I feel that I am a very romantic and passionate man (much more than most men) that has no problem in expressing my thoughts and my feelings. There are many more things that tickle my fancy, but I don’t want to bore anyone by detailing them all here.
Many women have had very bad experiences with men and sometimes let that experience into their new relationship. I’m looking for someone that won’t judge me by what someone has done in the past. I want a woman that pretty much knows what she wants and is not shy about asking or going after it. She is self assured, beautiful, passionate and sensitive to me and my need. She is willing and can incorporate her own needs into mine to blend us together while at the same time maintaining her own individuality. She can be full figured (but shapely), slim, average size, muscular or petite woman. She can be White, Black, Asian, Spanish or Native American, none of that matters as I’m looking at the heart as it tells the real story of the person inside. Her physical beauty, although important and does matter but is of lesser importance than that of her inner beauty. She loves children and think of them as our future and not their owns as their future are there children. She loves to play and is spontaneous and don’t mind being a little daring sometimes. She has a wonderful sense of humor and loves to laugh not only about life but about herself. Am I being too unrealistic? I hope not because I know she is out there somewhere. If you feel that you are the one then I am interested in hearing from you.