Hello Ladies, I'm very easy to get along with, I don't let anything get me upset. I believe GOD will take care of everything. I love to work-out and watch sports. I don't party much, I would rather rent a movie. I would love to meet someone who has her life together and is ready to settle down. I have been in the Army for 20 years, I will be getting out soon UPDATE: (RETIRED FROM THE ARMY,I work as a civilian for the Army now)and I'm ready to enjoy life more. I'm ready to love and be loved. Like I said before I'm looking for love, anyway sex is over rated. But intimacy is not. In fact if intimacy gets the attention that sex does things would be a whole lot better in this world. The physical act of sex is important to me but I dont need it every hour of the day? I have learned to appreciate the fullness of being physically intimate. But the thing that I lack is more than physical from the waist down. I am lacking the attention that was created to be between a man and a woman. The hellos and goodbyes. The hugs and kisses. The smiles. The relaxation. I long to have those intimate times again. I know that it is out there it's just a matter of time that I will meet someone that feels the same way. R U the 1?