Determined strong quiet calm nature protective sensitive loyal and romantic man with a very strong drive a man who is very comfortable with his sexuality a very good communicator not afraid to express my feelings.The truth is that my stability and my quiet, loving nature is comforting to those who understand and appreciate such qualities. (Im a Newyorker) The last thing I want to do today is put up a facade of being someone I am not! Im in a NY state of mind! A women thats decisive not abusive a strong communicator / drive TO MATCH MINE who knows how to treat a man that will give 110% of himself to that special 1 with the same qualities. Im looking for a long term relationship, A women who gives her man what he needs love,encouragment and respect and I will give the same. Also who is dependable, & honest. A soulmate who wants his mate to reach goals and conquer dreams together. I'd just like to add she conveys to me how very important i am to her I like independent women. But there's a fine line between being independent and acting detached. I want to settle down with a woman who regularly reveals her tender side and shows me that no matter what happens, she's got my back I want someone who'll be on my side at all times, through thick and thin. "This doesn't mean that you should mother me or assist me with every little detail of my life; it's more about consistently doing small, nurturing things that let me know you care! Is this you?