My introduction

Hi there. I am a white male, well educated with three degrees, slim, fit, athletic, a lifetime learner, intellectually curious about history, science,etc., strong when you need a friend, non-macho, gentle, compassionate (especially for those who are trying to do the right thing in difficult circumstances), laid back, playful, sensual, a good listener, introspective and articulate. I love children and would love to have some someday. I am seeking a woman who matches many of my qualities. Hopefully, you are slim to athletic build, intellectually curious, thoughtful, compassionate, articulate, playful, sensual and strong but gentle. You also have and/or would love to have children and you believe very much in nourishing children with love and positive comments - not driving them down with constant criticism and physical punishment. You are patient with children but do not simply give them everything they want and try to gently guide them to good behavior and love to teach and learn from young children. You are very playful and sensual and even mischievous at times and you love to tease your man. You should be kind and not be cruel (especially with others) but with me you certainly have the right to tease in a variety of ways without mercy and frequently and unpredictably - a man should always feel a little unsure as to what you are thinking about or planning to do to him. You love to be pampered with many massages (back, foot, shoulder, etc.) as I love to pamper a lot and have been complimented on my skills in this area. You love cuddling, holding hands, kissing and just enjoy the warmth, comfort, excitement and intimacy of just being next to the body of your man and you love to have this without rushing into sex. If a relationship does become serious and gets to the bedroom, I believe strongly that in the bedroom the focus should be completely on pampering and pleasing the female and teasing the male so I do like women who feel no guilt about being very selfish in this area My ideal is the "tomboy" who is slim and fit and who can be laid back in clothes, hair and makeup and who can be my best buddy and hike and climb trees and do safe rock climbs with me and might not even mind a little playful wrestling now and then (of course you would usually win) - not the ultra feminine (I think I broke a nail, How do you expect me to walk down that trail in my nice dress and high heels) woman. I know it is superficial but I must admit that the darker the skin of a woman the more I am attracted by her - To those Black and South Asian women who are dark skinned - you are definitely beautiful no matter what messages society may have given you. Finally, I am a non-smoker and non-drinker and so it would be a bonus to find someone who is a non-smoker and a non-drinker or light drinker. Thank you very much for reading all of this. I wish everybody the best of luck on the system.