Hi there. I am a white male, well educated with three degrees,
slim, fit, athletic, a lifetime learner, intellectually curious
about history, science,etc., strong when you need a friend,
non-macho, gentle, compassionate (especially for those who
are trying to do the right thing in difficult circumstances),
laid back, playful, sensual, a good listener, introspective
and articulate. I love children and would love to have
I am seeking a woman who matches many of my qualities.
Hopefully, you are slim to athletic build, intellectually curious,
thoughtful, compassionate, articulate, playful, sensual
and strong but gentle. You also have and/or would love
to have children and you believe very much in
nourishing children with love and positive comments -
not driving them down with constant criticism and
physical punishment. You are patient with children
but do not simply give them everything they want
and try to gently guide them to good behavior and
love to teach and learn from young children.
You are very playful and sensual and even mischievous
at times and you love to tease your man. You should be kind and
not be cruel (especially with others) but with me you certainly
have the right to tease in a variety of ways without mercy and
frequently and unpredictably - a man should always feel
a little unsure as to what you are thinking about or
planning to do to him.
You love to be pampered with many massages (back, foot, shoulder, etc.)
as I love to pamper a lot and have been complimented
on my skills in this area. You love cuddling, holding hands,
kissing and just enjoy the warmth, comfort, excitement
and intimacy of just being next to the body of your man
and you love to have this without rushing into sex.
If a relationship does become serious and gets to the
bedroom, I believe strongly that in the bedroom the
focus should be completely on pampering and
pleasing the female and teasing the male
so I do like women who feel no guilt about
being very selfish in this area
My ideal is the "tomboy" who is slim and fit and who can be
laid back in clothes, hair and makeup and who can be my
best buddy and hike and climb trees and do safe rock climbs with me
and might not even mind a little playful wrestling now
and then (of course you would usually win) -
not the ultra feminine (I think I broke a nail, How do you
expect me to walk down that trail in my nice dress and
high heels) woman.
I know it is superficial but I must admit that the darker
the skin of a woman the more I am attracted by her -
To those Black and South Asian women who are
dark skinned - you are definitely beautiful no matter
what messages society may have given you.
Finally, I am a non-smoker and non-drinker and so it would be
a bonus to find someone who is a non-smoker
and a non-drinker or light drinker.
Thank you very much for reading all of this.
I wish everybody the best of luck on the system.