I am looking for compatibility and passion... let me say it again compatibility and passion. I want you to be you and I will be me... let's see how we fit. I will make one thing known... are you listening? If you are not an affectionate woman then you are not the one for me...we can be friends but nothing more... I love an affectionate woman!!! If I am into you there is no such thing as too much affection. I think being an only child raised by an affectionate woman made me that way. My mother raised me to respect all women. I am looking for a woman who is more settled than not. I like to go out but at this stage of my life I have learned to appreciate a nice relaxed evening in front of the fire place (on a cold night of course) sipping some wine or other beverage with the woman in my life. For those of you who understand me it puts a smile on your face just thinking about it doesn't it? I want a woman who will understand my need to make a difference in peoples lives....especially children. SORRY BUT I CANT READ YOUR MESSAGES AT THIS TIME.