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  • Divorced, Man seeking Woman
  • 48 years old from Memphis, TN
  • Logged in: more than 60 days ago
  • Last Update: 4/18/2014
6' 0" (183 cm)
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African Descent…
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Some College
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My introduction

I would like to meet someone of the same interests, who has great honesty with an open mind to life in general. A friend first and then who knows what after that. As you go through life you realize the things you may have acted differently upon if it ever happened again. Sometimes you don't get a second chance. Whether its your fault or someone else, the outcome is that you are alone for some reason. Don't let life experiences stop your goals, but use them to your advantage to be a better person. As I have learned, being alone is not something that I want to do. Some people set their standards kind of high and I'm guilty of that., but I also understand that you have things about yourself that isn't quite complete to someone else. You have to be able to accept as well as receive. So I'm searching for that someone who has learned the value of a relationship, and understands the art of giving and receiving. Do I still have my standards, of course, but we all want a little more than we should have sometimes. There are essentially two types of people in the world: People who are dedicated to personal growth and people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle. Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to "improve" them after they're married. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. I have been blessed to have come a long way in life. Even when there was times I thought I just couldn't make it anymore, God saw mercy to grant me another day. I feel I have a purpose in life here. Whether it be just being there for my family, friends and strangers, I have began to accept that. I have ran away from it for a long time. I have been lots of places and seen lots of things that most people wouldn't care to know about. I have been blessed to be able to see things through different aspects of life. Public Relations jobs are one of the best jobs you can have, I think. It lets you see people for who they really are, some in their worst times and some at their best. But it helps you stay grounded in this world and your faith. Although unfortunately some people come here for the wrong reason, some do come on here being sincere in who they are and what they want. Lets hope that everyone can see their choice for what they really are and not what they want them to be. I wish everyone the best of luck and God Bless!

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