I am a former Nelly fan! The man I would like to meet is emotionally mature, smart, funny and kind. Someone who can value a strong smart woman without feeling threatened. He should be concerned about his appearance (not too over- weight; we all gain a bit evenutally!), and interested in traveling, movies, music and more. Someone who is financially and emotionally secure, with a sense of spirituality, and integrity. Oh! If you do not yet like Nelly, we can work on it!