Name is Angela, “You can accept or reject the way you are treated by other people, but until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed. You can bandage the bleeding with food, with alcohol, with drugs, with work, with cigarettes, with sex, but eventually, it will all ooze through and stain your life. You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past. i have joined a GYM. My was Food. Yuck, i had to learn to healthy. No more fried foods. no bread, no cheese & soda. Just when i thought my diet was not working. I finally have reached my goal. Size 12. Had to learn to love oneself before I will even try to love you.