Do You want my heart; if so how would you go about getting it? I'm focused on God and the steps He has ordered for me. Though there are some days I say to God; are you sure this is the order for me or someone else. Like you I too think someone in Heaven is playing tricks with me in this life and they are all laughing saying God will work it out for his good. (lol) I know for a fact God has a sense of humor. But just in the off chance that God has someone different for me, I'll say what I like. She should first and foremost HAVE (not thinking about it) a relationship with God (we must be equally yoked or burdened or have a heart for God). To keep the conversations flowing, communication skills would help (intellect is a plus, as I like technology). Though I may act silly from time to time I have a very quick wit and some have said I can be a nerd at times (but I like to call myself a cool, charismatic nerd) lol. I'm saying this because my mate will need to know how to relate to the cool charismatic side of me as well as the nerdy side of me (simply put she needs to have a brain an know how to use it). Her heart has to be kind, compassionate, loving and understanding (I am a man, we make a lot of mistakes). God knew what he was doing when he gave us women. I guess He knew sooner or later we would love gadgets, forget special days, work too much (you know stuff like that). Anyway back to the woman (sorry). I would like for her to to wear her makeup light or none at all (I'm a grown man I don't need a clown). Besides that natural look is whew!!! This in no way means she can't wear make up; I just want her to know how much to apply (a little can go a long way). A quick wit would help in dealings with me as well as others (someone has to keep me in line). Besides I don't want someone who doesn't know who they are an would just allow me to run over them (I did mention I can be a charismatic nerd so I need some who can make me think). Which by the way doesn't mean I want someone stubborn and pigheaded either. The object of all of this is for the two of us to relate enough to mesh or gel together to become ONE (not two or 1 and a half). If you struggle with deciding if you are just plain confident or an arrogant diva then you might want to press the gas an keep it moving. Discernment is one of my gifts that I use quite often so you can't fool me. NEWS FLASH THESE NEXT TWO POINTS ARE VERY IMPORTANT!!!!!! I have a small child (a daughter), so she MUST know how to be a WOMAN. Lastly I also have a teen son so the way you carry yourself an how you dress will have an influence on who he may later select to be his mate (he will never tell me dad you picked one like this so I did too) nah that won't happen!! So that means in the eyes of both a young male an female you really have to know how to carry yourself.